intermittent "MongoAPIError: Server record does not share hostname with parent URI" when starting

### Prerequisites - [x] I have written a descriptive issue title - [x] I have searched existing issues to ensure the bug has not already been reported ### Mongoose version 8.13.2 ### Node.js version 24.3.0 ### MongoDB server version 8.0.21 ### Typescript version (if applicable) _No response_ ### Description When starting server I intermittently get a "MongoAPIError: Server record does not share hostname with parent URI" error. Restarting server will usually succeed. I added a "{ family: 4 }" parameter to the URI and thought that that had fixed the problem, but it is still occurring. ### Steps to Reproduce My URI is ```const mongoUri = `mongodb+srv://${process.env.DB_USER}:${process.env.DB_PASS}@${process.env.DB_HOST}?retryWrites=true&w=majority&appName=Cluster0`;``` mongoose.connect(mongoUri, { family: 4 }) ### Expected Behavior _No response_